There’s no other more painful experience than being broken hearted. The feeling of emptiness, heartache and longing for the one you love is still in your heart and there’s nothing you can do about it. There’s no remedy for it but to cry and to pour out all your hurts thru tears. It’s the easiest way to let your feelings burst.

And no other could help you but yourself. Whether you admit it or not, it’s only you can be responsible for such thing. However, in order to help you go through your heartache, before you cry out all your pain, don’t easily jump into the idea that it’ll be the end of your relationship. Remember that while you’re in pain, twice is the pain your ex is experiencing. So if the situation is not easy for you then it’s not even easy for him too.

Of course, both of you still want to work out something in your relationship its not healthy if you keep on thinking about your ex having an affair with somebody else. Don’t be paranoid; instead think of something that will draw him back to you.

I have compiled some healthy tips here that will help you get back your ex.

While you recover from your painful break up, don’t feel sorry for yourself. Look at the other side of the coin. If it hadn’t work, your relationship needs some fixing and being sorry about it won’t help. Aside from that, you should also accept what had happened. So if he left you, don’t think that you are not a good girlfriend. But evaluate yourself and always be optimistic that you can still fix your relationship.

Another thing is, give both of yourself some space. Missing each other is one way of letting your boyfriend how you mean to him. Allow him to miss you so much that he will be the one who is running after you and not the other way around. Then, don’t act as if you’re going to get crazy if you lose him, please… he don’t want to have a demanding girlfriend. And telling him such thing will give him the idea that you are being needy and selfish. And the last but the most important thing you should do is to be yourself. A true person always gets the reward. Remember when he courted you at the very start? You were just you then. No artificial characters were added.

Keep that in mind and you’ll surely end up with the man you love.